Short advice/tip to give young people starting out

If I have any advice or tip to give young people starting out then it would be this:  Don’t live together OR have sex with each other UNTIL you get married.

This may seem old-fashioned.  I don’t care how old fashioned it seems.  

Also – as the saying goes – Marry in haste – repent at leisure.   So – no marrying in a hurry and expecting the union of marriage to make a relationship “hunky dory”.

Don’t marry quickly, don’t have sex until marriage.  Don’t even SLEEP together.  

Avoid situations were the temptation to have sex may become too much.  

Remain a virgin until your marriage.  Yes – wait until you find the right person before you step into a sexual relationship.

These opions may seem old-fashioned and “out of touch” with society.  I don’t care how they may seem.  Having a long “court-ship” before you take the important decision to stay together is a very sensible idea.  

Marriage doesn’t guarantee there won’t be problems in your life.  But deciding to make a committment to someone – not blinded by sexual desire – creates a stronger bond between two people.

So – young people – take time to get to know someone – and don’t have sex – it messes with your emotions and can confuse you as to whether you are “in love” or not.

This is a much bigger subject – of course – and I will discuss more on this later.

Have a great Monday – and a great week!


Posted on December 9, 2013, in mental health and spiritual awareness. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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